Ever wonder why we bother with innuendo when both sides of the conversation know exactly what is meant? I have long been bothered by this strange aspect of communication. This amazing lecture breaks it down in terms of three distinct "relationship types." After watching this 10 minute exposition on language, I finally, at age 34, understand where I've gone wrong in many social settings: I'm too explicit with my intentions. Some things, in some situations, are simply best left unsaid:
me: "owen, come here. it's time to get a new diaper" him, sprinting down the hall with no pants on: "forget about it!" he's quoting benny the rabbit, a short-lived sesame street character who happens to be in his favorite "count with me" video. i'm turning my head, trying not to let him see me laugh, because his use and tone with the phrase are so spot-on.
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