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sweet as can be

by e

i dunno how i ended up in a house of such sweet boys. marcus and i are both home sick today; he's watching Cars for the millionth time, i'm working my way through a backlog of designblogs. a minute ago he climbed onto my lap and said:

"mommy, i want to snuggle you. i really love you"
me, wiping away a tear of joy "i really love you too"
mar, "i love you as high as i can hop" (can you guess which book is a favorite?)
me "me too marcus"

he then held monkey up to my face and said "here ya go mommy, give monkey kiss". naturally, i obliged, and he proceeded to snuggle me so fiercly, we accidentally butted heads and i ended up with a fat lip.

Comments

Karin said…
Really beautiful story, Erin! Excuse me for a sec, I seem to have gotten something in my eye ;-)
blissful_e said…
Awwww! Glad you had some sweet cuddles on a sick day. Hope you both feel better soon!

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